"Every morning, we get a chance to be different. A chance to change. A chance to be better. Your past is your past. Leave it there. Get on with the future part."
I am starting this blog as way to express myself and share my struggles with others in hopes of inspiring others to be optimistic. I want to help people who are going through similar situations as me. I am at a point in my life where a lot has changed and I am trying to do what this quote says, and use every morning as a chance to be better.
I am starting this blog as way to express myself and share my struggles with others in hopes of inspiring others to be optimistic. I want to help people who are going through similar situations as me. I am at a point in my life where a lot has changed and I am trying to do what this quote says, and use every morning as a chance to be better.
One of the changes I have been going through is dealing with a break-up but it has taught me a lot.
It is important to feel pain and acknowledge that it hurts because it mattered but that does not mean it won't get better and it does not mean that love will always break your heart. Never close yourself off from love for fear of getting hurt again.
"Being tender and open is beautiful. As a woman, I feel continually shhh’ed. Too sensitive. Too mushy. Too wishy washy. Blah blah. Don’t let someone steal your tenderness. Don’t allow the coldness and fear of others to tarnish your perfectly vulnerable beating heart. Nothing is more powerful than allowing yourself to truly be affected by things. Whether it a song,a stranger, a mountain, a raindrop, a tea kettle, an article, a sentence, a footstep, feel it all- look around you. All of this is for you. Take it and have gratitude. Give it and feel love.”
― Zooey Deschanel
It is important to feel pain and acknowledge that it hurts because it mattered but that does not mean it won't get better and it does not mean that love will always break your heart. Never close yourself off from love for fear of getting hurt again.
"Being tender and open is beautiful. As a woman, I feel continually shhh’ed. Too sensitive. Too mushy. Too wishy washy. Blah blah. Don’t let someone steal your tenderness. Don’t allow the coldness and fear of others to tarnish your perfectly vulnerable beating heart. Nothing is more powerful than allowing yourself to truly be affected by things. Whether it a song,a stranger, a mountain, a raindrop, a tea kettle, an article, a sentence, a footstep, feel it all- look around you. All of this is for you. Take it and have gratitude. Give it and feel love.”
― Zooey Deschanel
Tips for getting over a break up:
1. Get your anger out in a healthy way
2.Turn it into a learning experience
3. Don't ignore your feelings
4. Acknowledge the good in your past relationship
5. Focus on your good qualities
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